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Networking and Introductions.

Relationships are a form of capital. How the firm approaches networking: gathering information, finding connection, and laying the foundation for a relationship.

In MCG's method, networking is fellowship, never a pitch. The firm works from the Manifesto's FORM questions, The Power of 3, and the discipline of introductions: the moves that turn strangers into a network that speaks for you.

The Firm’s Position

The Manifesto's method is four questions that build awareness of the other person, under the acronym FORM. The answers help with rapport, with thoughtful gifts, and with knowing how you can serve them. Networking is fellowship, never a time to criticize or object.

It is easier, and better, to be introduced than to introduce yourself. Ask for an introduction only with a clear purpose, and remember that the person who introduced you is now attached to how you behave.

Introductions are how you figuratively skip the line and go straight into the realm of another.

Personal Branding: A Manifesto on Fame and Influence, Second Edition, 7.3

FORM stands for Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Motivation. The Power of 3 adds the daily habit: three new introductions a day, starting with 90 days. The full entry: Networking and Introductions.

The Wiki

The Methods and Professions.

The Terms

Each defined once in Personal Branding Terms and Doctrine.

FORM
The Manifesto's four questions for getting to know someone: Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Motivation. The answers help with rapport, with thoughtful gifts, and with knowing how to serve the other person.
The Power of 3
Introduce yourself to three strangers every day for a year, starting with 90 days to build the habit. Thirty days produces 90 new connections and a full year produces 1,095, before any compounding.
Rapport
A harmonious relationship, in the Manifesto's definition: the path from stranger to acquaintance, to friend, and beyond. It is built through shared interests, time spent together, introductions from trusted sources, and the media.
Edification
The endorsement of an individual: supportive statements about another person's accomplishments, character, and overall being. The Manifesto calls it an exchange of influence, credibility by association as opposed to guilt by association.
Endorsement
Attaching your name to a product, a review, or another person. Every endorsement is an extension of your good faith and your influence, so research comes first, and a withdrawn endorsement needs its reasons.

Daily Practice

From the Personal Branding Tips, one practical move a day. Every Relationships tip is on the tips page.

  1. Tip 311: Use FORM in ConversationIn your next networking conversation, learn four things: family, occupation, recreation and motivation. Write them down within the hour.
  2. Tip 263: Meet Three New People DailyIntroduce yourself to three new people every day, online or in person, and log each one. Review the count weekly, monthly and quarterly.
  3. Tip 259: Introduce People Who Need Each OtherWhen someone mentions a problem, introduce them to a trusted person who solves it. Recommend only those whose work you have seen firsthand.
  4. Tip 316: Message Within MinutesBefore you leave an event, get contact details from anyone you want to know better, and thank each one by message within minutes of walking away.

Read and Watch

  1. Using the Power of 3 to Grow Your Personal BrandInsights: Three actions a day, applied consistently, and why that beats waiting for a breakthrough.
  2. The Power of 3 Tracker (opens in a new tab)Free Tool: Keep the count on identitypositioning.com.
In Isaac's Words

From the Interviews.

Advice Isaac Mashman has given on this subject on his own shows and in interviews, as the Doctrine Library cites it, each linked to its transcript. His own guide to the subject, with his strongest explanation and more interviews, is on isaacmashman.com: Isaac Mashman's guide to networking for executives (opens in a new tab).

Marketability

Leave Your Group and Network at Every Event

At every event, split from the people you came with for at least part of each day and meet people you do not know. Set a number of new connections you will leave with.

“what's the point of going to an event, especially networking event if you don't network”

Chase the Vision with Isaac Mashman, “Getting Flown Out To Washington D.C. By Meta | Not Wasting Opportunities”, May 23, 2022
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Credibility

Make Introductions to Show Your Network

Make a habit of connecting people who should know each other, for business, friendship, or collaboration. Do it without expecting anything back.

“the more introductions you make, the more it shows that you have a network”

Chase the Vision with Isaac Mashman, “Making Introductions”, February 18, 2022
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Marketability

Fall in Love With Building Relationships

Make relationship building a daily practice you enjoy, not a chore. Share a little of your life and routine, safely, with the people who follow you.

“fall in love with establishing relationships”

Chase the Vision with Isaac Mashman, “People, Personality and Personal Branding”, September 26, 2020
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Examples

The Cases the Firm Cites.

As told in the Manifesto and on this site.

Ninety, Then 1,095

Thirty days of The Power of 3 produces 90 new connections. Ninety days produces 270, and a full year produces 1,095, before any compounding.

The Power of 3

The Problem Solver

Knowing the right designer, lawyer, or producer turns you into the problem solver, and people want to reciprocate that generosity.

Building Your Contact List

Credibility by Association

Speaking for another person ties your reputation to theirs. The Manifesto calls it edification: credibility by association, the opposite of guilt by association.

Giving Endorsements
Engagements

Your name is already being interpreted. The question is who are they, and what are they thinking?

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